I leave the game immediately when I hear that sort of language. Bad thing, it seems to usually be the Af-Am using the word the most. Though on many occasions it sounds like the high pitch voice of a kid whose balls haven't dropped yet and has no clue. I try to catch the name and leave negative feedback. Will MS do anything, I don't know, but have read in others games forums where their accounts have been suspended, but I don't know. If I happen to be the host I will boot them.
I have recently set my console to play the voices through the TV as well as my headphones. My wife wants to hear what we say, and what I am laughing at, I don't like hearing the racists comments, the "how many cuss words can I say in 30 seconds" thing many young idiots like, and the long annoying scream. I don't want her to have to listen to this either. This is why I usually just drop the game, no matter how well I may be doing.
The good thing is, I find lots of good matches with seemingly mature players most of the time.
